I was about sixteen years old when I finally got the courage to admit to my parents that I was bisexual. I had feelings for girls and women since well lord twelve or thirteen. My first kiss from a girl was a couple nights before I came out to my parents that I like both men and women. (Though I am more into men then women sexually.) It was hard because my mother had said some things about accepting it, yet when she found out who I kissed that was a gir. She kind of flipped dead the hell out. I didn't know what to think or even what to say when she was mad that I kissed my best friend of four years.
Needless to say my mother still does not like the fact that I like women and she herself came out as bisexual. Talk about hypocrite! Why is it wrong for me to be bisexual yet she can come out and expect to have acceptance? Alright I think I calmed down a bit since she came out but that still gets to me.
My father has always said he wants his daughters and his sons to be dead straight. ~Rolls her eyes~ Well I am not no matter how you put it or twist it. I like women and I love men and I'd be with both sexually in a heartbeat. I want the right woman though and I have the right men in my life. I am not going to change just because they both have their morals twisted around to suit their wants and needs.
I am proud to be Bisexual I don't hide it and I never will I am not about to start now. I've been out for nearly five years now I am nearing 21 years of age. I am going to be who I am meant to be. No matter what it means to others. I might be a bad example of a bisexual woman, but I am none the less bisexual and I AM PROUD to be just that!
I will second that, being Bi myself. I love both sexes equally and I'm not scared to admit it. I came out to my 'rents and all they had to ask is: Are you happy? When I replied yes they said well then that's all that counts.
ReplyDeleteI believe that it doesn't matter if I end up with a man or a woman because The One will be the one that steals my heart that will win in the end.
Can I say I'm proud of you? I'm much older and have been out for the same amount of time as you have and you're def not a bad example. Not to me!
~Blushes deeply~ Thank you Sidney! Oh um wow. What do I say to someone that is so nice to say these things other than thanks. I didn't know if I'd have enough guts to write and I did delete some of my posts because they were how do I say to personal to share with the whole wide world.
ReplyDeleteMine have been some of them personal and will so again eventually.
ReplyDeleteI am thinking about putting up some about my love life, but I'm not what you call conventional in my love life. I love more than one man. I have loved a woman in my life, but it was not meant to be. I'm proud to be who I am just sometimes I fear that people will judge.
ReplyDeleteI've been judged and condemned yet those that have loved and do love me makes up for those who are ignorant to those of us who also have feelings just like they do yet they don't realize this. We feel the pain that they do not till they have walked in our shoes. I do not judge and I am no jury. Post whatever you wish.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sidney. That really does help. I took a look at your blog and instantly liked how it was set up and how it was not just you posting things. It is neat and I enjoy reading your blog. I haven't for a couple days now because well I've been getting in some ME time. I guess to be honest I take everything up with my loves when it comes to posting a thing about my love life. It's their lives as well and they should have a say in the matter.
ReplyDeleteI've got a few things to write about today though that I am going to work on right now.
Perfect and I'll will be sure to read them once posted. I wish you and your loves a great evening. Laterz.
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