tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post8796406272694651862..comments2012-11-11T20:19:42.079-05:00Comments on Love & The Mini-Adult: Can I just have some Peace in my Life Please (Kitty Kat: Speaks)Lucy/Kathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11930082851976366964noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post-30760765009816379232011-09-13T17:46:15.643-04:002011-09-13T17:46:15.643-04:00~Squeezes you and breathes deeply~ I'll go che...~Squeezes you and breathes deeply~ I'll go check it out hehe you are such a sweet heart yourself!<br /><br /><br />Tough love sounds about what I have to do. I am going to try to be there for the baby as much as I can.Lucy/Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11930082851976366964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post-59754875790848913722011-09-13T17:44:11.367-04:002011-09-13T17:44:11.367-04:00Kat you are a sweetheart! Thank you for that. An...Kat you are a sweetheart! Thank you for that. And I'm glad that you're focusing on your goal. Some women never learn to walk away from the men who don't appreciate them, the ones who bring them grief and headache. Tough love states that we just leave them to it, as long as they are not being abused. If they are we try to help, but only as much as they let us. The only thing you can really do is to try to be there for the baby when it's born to show him or her what a real adult looks like and what love truly is.<br /><br />BTW, check out my blog (you and Sid) I thank you both AND today we had a date BEFORE our date on Friday. It was AWESOME!!! I'm so excited as well.Vicktor Alexanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01335249239525296297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post-23405512473097840502011-09-13T15:07:17.814-04:002011-09-13T15:07:17.814-04:00Sid- Back in school I was called a trailer trash w...Sid- Back in school I was called a trailer trash whore. The girl who said it ended up between the fence and the fence pole of the broken basketball court's fence. I slammed the fence against the girl's back until the teachers pulled me away. Did I feel a thing hell no but, I made sure she felt everything. You see I was a real bitch back in school and I defended myself, my friends, and my family and damn the cost to me. I've never been expelled from school or anything like that but, then again they would have to kick out the people I fought with as well. Yes, afterwards I was in guidance talking things out with the girl I hurt but, I told her like it was. You don't ever in your right mind call another girl a whore let alone a trailer trash whore. No one in school believed I would fight for myself because I had let people slide on it for a year and a half of calling me silly little names. They found that the silly little names didn't bother me but, that the degrading ones would earn you a lot of pain.<br /><br />Vee- They are still together but I mean he does nothing to get ready for the baby that is very much near the due date. It is something that I have always thought was stupid. You can be a baby daddy but you can't be a man and step up WTF? It's like the man doesn't care once they slip from your body and achieved what they wanted to. (Getting off as quick as possible without thinking of the outcome.) I have a father (Yes the low life mother fucker I wrote about) He was there for everything but, still he isn't a daddy to me. My Papa (Adopted hehe) he would be a daddy, he did everything for his son (Big Brother's Hubby hehe) even though he gave him up because he couldn't raise him properly or so he thought. Daddy Mich (Yes I call him Daddy) he is more of a daddy to me although I don't see much of him. I am keeping my eyes on the prize or at least trying to I have had a good night talked to a few of my loved ones last night. (You know I love to give back massages and I need to stock up on my oils before I go down there! Can you imagine all the damn fun that could start MHM!) I am so ready to get to the goal and to the prize. (Now mind you I still have a ways to go but, when I get there nothing will be stopping me.<br /><br />~Hugs and squeezes both Sid and VeeVee~ I am majorly happy right now. Something I have been meaning to get around to though is telling you both how damn sweet you both are! Sid I know your having it tough right now but you and your family can and will make it through it. Vee hehe you got that date this friday and man am I excited about all of that and you are beautiful amazing and caring and everything else I have said about you rings true on a daily bases. Love you both!Lucy/Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11930082851976366964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post-36486711147746491482011-09-13T07:23:21.612-04:002011-09-13T07:23:21.612-04:00*applauds* Some people are not worth the trouble, ...*applauds* Some people are not worth the trouble, the energy or the air it would take to fight with them. I'm glad that you identified your "triggers" and you explained yourself well. I'm right there with you with the "Don'ts" and the Do's I will endeavor to remember and only do them. Before something great happens in your life, something horrible will happen to take your focus off the great thing coming your way. Just keep your eyes on the prize honey. And while it didn't work, I'm glad that you took my advice. It shows that you're the bigger person in this situation.<br /><br />As for your sister's "Baby Daddy"? Most of them stop being of use as soon as they pull out. That's why they're the Baby Daddy and not the father or the husband or even just the daddy. There's a stigma attached to that and rightly so. Just keep your focus on the amazing partners you have and you'll be fine.<br /><br />Eyes on the prize little sis! <br />{HUGZ AND SQUEEZES}Vicktor Alexanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01335249239525296297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1039092711132743305.post-18041253474644334362011-09-13T06:34:46.144-04:002011-09-13T06:34:46.144-04:00I would so agree that some men and this is not dir...I would so agree that some men and this is not directed towards all cause there are good men out there are useless sods to be precise. <br /><br />Where it comes to you I do digress and without hardship I will surely stick to all the DO'S. My reflection on the 'don't's' are much the same as yours. Back in my teen years I was called a slut. Well said person got themself a broken arm from going through all the trouble of calling me that crass word in the first place. Did I hurt them I ask myself? No cause I didn't feel it since I'm the one to have inflicted the pain to the arse for daring to call me this in a bus load of school kids :grins: Ah thems the good ole days!Betryal the Fallen Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13494228623972311084noreply@blogger.com